He said that the tolerance of the transistors , resistors etc would be the main problem in getting a preamp that is truly top notch. A high end preamp should have handselected/ tested parts. Otherwise the desired quality would not be achieved.
It's hard to know where to start with a comment like this, since it leads straight to audiophile ridiculousness. The questions you might want to think about instead are: What is the definition of a "truly top notch" preamp? What is the type and degree of "desired quality" that may or may not be achieved? What methods of evaluation will be applied to determine the degree of achievement? And what does component tolerance have to do with any of it?
From a rational engineering perspective, the measure of success is meeting a set of specifications, no more, no less. If the only way to meet the specification is to use tight tolerance parts or hand match components, then that's what you do. Whenever possible, circuits are designed to meet specifications with the most common parts and simplest assembly methods.
That person said also that it easily happens to somebody who is not an expert in soldiering to spoil the transistors , etc ( by exposing them to too much heat?) which can leed to malfunctions or spoiled parts .
Of course, the right answer would be that all this is nonsense and I dont have to worry about it.
But please give me some evidence about your opinion.
This is worth worrying about, though only a few kitbuilders have actually damaged components during assembly. As mentioned above, if you have doubts about your soldering skill, practice on some surplus parts or an inexpensive kit before attempting one of ours.